When the worldly bond is misery and unreal, how the God is having bonds with the devotes similar to the worldly bonds?

When the worldly bond is misery and unreal, how the God is having bonds with the devotes similar to the worldly bonds?

The worldly bonds may give happiness in the beginning but at the end misery is the only fruit (Duhkha yonaya evate...Gita). The same bond with God is giving the eternal bliss. But the aim of the divine bond should not be for your bliss. But the bliss of God should be your real goal and not selfish bliss. You must be prepared to face any misery in the bond with God. The worldly bonds between the unreal souls are unreal. The souls are relatively unreal with respect to God. Since God is the absolute reality, the same bond attains reality from God.

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