Is marriages among followers essential for their growth

satya's picture

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My son is following srcm sahaj marg and he talkes so much about marriages arranged by his master chariji among followers. And he projects that following his gurus order they are going to get benefitted in great ways not sure how?
Can any one throw light on this topic, is it there in any sect, guru selecting followers life partner and blackmailing them to marry? My son says he will forgo all of us for the sake of guru. I m even afraid he may commit suicide? Black mailing and Blackmagic seems to two forces by which chariji operates it seems...

alon's picture

all marry among followers only (christians, muslims, hundus etc)

Dear, i know it is hard but it is maybe the time you let go of your son and let him choose his way and make his decisions and learn from them.

Marriage among folowers is not a new thing. Followers of Muhammad marry each other (muslims), and so do christians (followers of jesus), buddhists, hundus and so on. There is no difference if it is a group of 200 or 200 millions.

alon | Mon, 02/07/2011 - 20:16
satya's picture

My doubt how can guru order for my sons marriage

I have never ever come across such guru who says he followers should accept his order and says that it will be great otherwise it is bane for them? Not sure how?

satya | Tue, 02/08/2011 - 04:14
Tania's picture

That's exactly what most

That's exactly what most gurus say, they are just more politically correct :-)

The essence of guru-desciple relationship is total surrender, a true guru will kick out a sanyasi who fails to reach this degree to return when is ripe for such a relationship. Otherwise the whole relationship is a useless game.

I understand the concern for your son. Have you spoken with him about this? Are you trusting his jusgement?

Tania | Tue, 02/08/2011 - 08:42
satya's picture

Well guru is a pscho

I should give example of a mad person given a sharp stone, then assume how people postion will be. Similarily this psycho guru is given position and power. Now everyone is suffering. every thing he attributes to surrender and obidience and what not...

satya | Tue, 02/08/2011 - 14:36
Tania's picture

Satya, on what do u base the

Satya, on what do u base the harsh claim that he is a psycho. u need very good supporting arguments to make such a statement, especially given your understood resentment against him due to the story with your son.

Tania | Tue, 02/08/2011 - 15:58
satya's picture

Some examples

According to him parents are selfish. Browse you will get the content.
He is the only good person in this world.
Should not attend parents funeral in presence of guru
Should bury dead body instead of burning as per hindu rituals.
if abhyasis are againist the marriage, if for reason they dont like, it gets him enoromous angry. I saw it personally.
He wastes crores of rupees, even in those places he constructs costliest lavish buildings...
There are numerous suicides in the name of marriages
The list goes on....
Some, call him blackmagician, to a great extent it is true.
Never ever we can find him calm.
That is guru shri parthasarthy rajagopalachari.

satya | Fri, 02/11/2011 - 03:54