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This is very well explained M,
I am sure that you know Kamadeva is the Lord of desires, especially lust in archaic Hindu thought...
Maybe it would be a good idea to change the name of your meditation technique to suit its processes a little more!
love and Blessings,
Deepam

I just tried it. It is a powerful technique.

I think the core stage in it is: "10. Now forget all that you just experienced." that shows that the triggers are just triggers to something that is there in the first place.

It is called in other placed "forgetfulness" or "drop the "why" (see for example http://www.gurusfeet.com/blog/how-correctly-apply-awareness-or-avoiding-... - stage 2 in the diagram). In this stage you "forget" the outer circumstances (sweep them to outside of your attention) and concentrate on the inner feelings. When the outer circumstances remain in the field of observation, our observation of the consequent inner feelings and thereafter our acceptance of them cannot be total, our attention is still divided.

PS. I think the conclusion that "How can this be unless the Self and the Fruits of love are one?" is not valid enough and anyway is not necessary to enjoy the fruits of this technique. Also the title may be a bit pretentious.