Dear gurus; help me...

ULASS SISTER's picture

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I was a spritual person who never believes there might be any problem in this world,but now I'm in a big trouble. I think I will not be able to get over this situation without another spritual's help.That's why I will be so gratefull if you may help me.
That's my issue:
I believe that I have to die. I have to end my existing in this life and pass to another life. But I can't do this. I can't neither go on my normal life nor pass another life. I'm just like stucked in Araf. And I'm so exhausted cause of this situation. Every second that I breathe; I am leaving my soul and existing. I know that there is no way to come back to this life again.But I can't find that power inside of me to pass another life. I am in this situation for 7 years.Please help me.I want to be in peace any more. I am exhausted.
Thank You.

david's picture

You posted your very same

You posted your very same words under two different names and different genders. This doesn't give much credibility to regard your invocation seriously.

david | Sat, 10/27/2012 - 19:08
ULASS SISTER's picture

I didn't get your point;

I didn't get your point; Ulas is the person who is in trouble so badly spritually, he is my brother, and he doesnt know so well English. I am translating his words. Do yo mind??? Look,situation is serious, I will be glad if you dont write again.Help or dont write.

ULASS SISTER | Sat, 10/27/2012 - 19:18
nelo's picture

Dear Ulass, Your words

Dear Ulass,

Your words touched me and I can sense your agony and suffering from distance.

Spirituality should be approached with a clean state of mind. I perceive that you are not in such a state. Spirituality should not be used to cover inner difficulties and feeling. Feeling the need to pass to another life is strictly not a spiritual realization but a sign for depression. True, there are spiritual techniques that can help a bit in cleaning the mind but I would not recommend such for you because I sense that you use spirituality not to cope with deep rooted mental obstacles.

What you need to do is to first have a conventional psychological assistance and only then when you are stabilized to return to the spiritual path.

Love to you, be strong and follow the above advice and you will see the light. I promise.

We are available here to assist you in any way.

nelo | Sat, 10/27/2012 - 22:41
Asanga | Sun, 10/28/2012 - 05:51
ULASS SISTER's picture

Thank you so much for your

Thank you so much for your kindly replies I really appreciate it. But he is stuck on these thoughts, may be we are hopeless... He is just looking for a way out of this situation without accepting that it's cause of a mental or emotional difficulties. No words except he expects will help I think. For 7 years he is in a prison in his mind, and it's awfull, torching him. If you can help him in any way -except advising having a proffessional assistance- would help...Who knows...Perhaps he may be fine one day.

ULASS SISTER | Sun, 10/28/2012 - 18:12
Asanga's picture

Blessings from a true saint

Compassionate blessings from a pir and sincere prayers...

I am, yet I am not...

Asanga | Mon, 10/29/2012 - 06:34
Seeking Bliss's picture

Incarnation and Destiny


I had similar doubts like you about destiny and incarnation. I was able to get much clarification from the Spiritual Science Research Foundation, which helped me understand more about destiny from a spiritual perspective, how to over come unhappiness and obstacles in life that we all face everyday and more about incarnations and karma.

Spiritual Science Research Foundation (SSRF) Site

Seeking Bliss | Sat, 12/15/2012 - 01:29
ULASS SISTER's picture

Thank you for your kindly

Thank you for your kindly reply, I will make him read that web site's pages. God bless you all...

ULASS SISTER | Fri, 01/25/2013 - 10:37