What is and what is not a soul mate?

Ammi's picture



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how can our mortal minds even comprehend what real love is? are we part & parcels of the unending whole recognizing the divine within each other? are we spirits karmically bound for eternity? because both of those sound nice to me. and what about those with whom we clash? do we have a karmic dance to play out together, no matter how unpleasant?



lilian's picture

love and hate are from same origin

I think that when we feel intense emotion towards someone - intense love or intense hate - it is the opposite polarities of the same mental karmic connection, mental connection we carry from previous lives maybe which calls for a resolution.

Are you familiar with this strange phenomenon that you get to know someone and instantly you find yourself despising him so grievously? And you haven't met him before, he didn't do you any harm, he reminds you no one else.

Therefore it is essential not to react to such intense emotions, to accept them from a point of understanding and to process them in real time by observing them in the presence of this someone. They carry a lot of valuables from far away.

lilian | Mon, 08/04/2008 - 06:38
barbara's picture

People mistake romantic love and true love

Though once in 1,000 years it is said that there is case of a romantic love that is also a true love... :-)

True love indeed is something we can mostly imagine and hope for...

Romantic love is usually a hidden obsession, a temporary narcsistic, sometimes selfish, state of mind, a cure for our feeling of not complete, a remedy for our feeling of insecurity in this world, an efficient arrangament to have free sex (for men) and free offsprings (for women).

True love is a totally different thing.

The above does not mean we should not enjoy romantic love. It just means that we should not idealize it to what it is not which results in blocking ourselves from reaching true love ("hey, i know what true love is, i have it with my grlfriend... i do not need to work on it..."

barbara | Mon, 08/04/2008 - 15:25
dhorai's picture

yes barbara some true truth!

since i disliked coming to age and leaving father and taking someone other in my 17 th age not now and also due to host of tother reasons......
"i had a dream"
"i have created all with only head no body thats all the creations is"
no sex to creation......

uspeak and learn and enjoy life...

next dream,
in light i and my men exist and such that we do great things instantly "u can fly" so u hardly need vehicle like aeroplane to fly......

etc etc as in ssuper hero

such that i will score 1000 runs in sixers and my oppsite team gets out in ten balls in my over just see the complete onesidedness it repeated many times u must answer now why...
i and my father were peacemakers....
as i rode cycle in universal perfection...
in white polised polyster dress in fast cycle men and women will flock to see me as i were an angel from another galaxy....

so when ur child sees cartoon network please do not stop him if possible make them superhero by healthy food s and habits,if u had time...

with love,
dhorai.

with love
dhorai.

dhorai | Thu, 12/25/2008 - 23:23
dhorai's picture

my love to the little child!

yes ,
i had enormous love,,,,,
raagena dvesha so says yoga......
love and hate exist together.....
where their is love and expectation that itself can become hate when expectation is not met with....

for example psunami was explained by "dasavatharam " film all who despised the god as with siva in denouncing the vishnu bhakta even against the bhata 's wish ahs to perish in psunami....
no one wrote preview for it...
the scientist saved the whole world from total disaster.... and denounced god from a devotional past life
dr.govind to ramanuja dasan..... or back....

ask me u have 1000 true stories....
or intently read true ramayana and mahabharata
and u need enough sprit to read them....
for valmiki could not recite rama he has to be given inverse "maramaram not marcus trescothick" for realisation...
which means rama lord saves all who do sin for family eventough unwilling....
with love
dhorai.

dhorai | Thu, 12/25/2008 - 23:13