the first time i saw him speak, i didn't even know who he was, but i was profoundly affected. i enjoyed an opportunity to hug the man & was floating on bliss for hours.
Love can be unselfish, samartha; reciprocal, samanjasa; or selfish, sadharana. The unselfish lover seeks only the welfare of his beloved, even at the cost of personal hardship and pain. In reciprocal love, the lover desires happiness both for self and his beloved. When love is selfish, the lover cares only for his own happiness.